There’s bravery in quitting—and that’s what I did. Recently, I found myself completing my communication capstone and thinking ‘Wow, ok, I actually graduated.’
It’s a weird feeling, I’ve been at Sinclair for almost six years so I’ve slowly grown to love this place. Half of those years were spent at the Clarion, and out of all the schooling and money spent on tuition, the greatest thing I experienced at Sinclair was the student newspaper.
It was something I wanted to continue to hold on to even after graduating this summer. I experienced so much—some of the worst moments of life, but also some of the best. I grew not only as a writer, but also as a manager and as a person.
I hoped to continue growing and working at the Clarion, but sometimes life has a different path for you. As much as I love the people and the daily tasks that come with being the executive editor, I also realize that I need growth in my life and need to learn to let go, while being happy with my efforts.
Well-timed goodbyes are just as beautiful as fresh starts, which is why I have decided to leave the Clarion. I am ready to start my life outside of school, classes and sadly, the Clarion. Once you have freedom from school, life really does take off. You’ll find yourself extremely busy, starting your career and realizing things need to be cut from your life in order to achieve other goals.
But the greatest things I have learned from being at Sinclair and working at the Clarion are things that will be carried into every aspect of my life and career. So here are my last words of advice as ‘Dear Gabby’ and some things I learned from being a student and the executive editor.
- Almost everyone I have interviewed for a story has had one thing in common and that is this: “It’s not about what you know, it’s about who you know.” Your skills are important, but get yourself out there and network—meet people and create a name for yourself.
- Possess a strong work ethic. Your reputation is dependent on this in order to get a good job. Don’t slide on by, show your skills and give more than what you’re asked. It’ll show that you’re a reliable hard worker.
- Push past your comfort zone. Yeah it’s hard, but the more you expand your knowledge and open your mind, the closer you’ll get to your goals. There were many times I felt uncomfortable or didn’t want to write a certain story for the paper, but I did and it helped me in more ways than one.
- Communicate, simple as that. If you let someone know you’re stressed or having a hard time with an assignment or task, more than likely people are willing to be understanding or offer to help. Learning how to communicate effectively will help you in all of your relationships, both professionally and intimately.
- Positivity goes a long way. If you show kindness and positivity people will be more receptive of what you have to say. Even during the hardest times, I found that if you’re gentle and kind with people, collaborating with them will be a million times easier.
- Leave your baggage at the door. There have been many times that I have experienced stress in my life, but decided to not let it interfere with my work. Everyone is fighting their own battles, so be kind to yourself and others, but also leave your problems at the door in order to stay focused on your goals. Follow through with your words and commitments and learn to overcome the hardships.
Inevitably, stress will consume you, so learn how to manage it. Being an editor, a student and an employee at other jobs has helped me grow in so many ways, and I can truly thank Sinclair and the Clarion.
If you have an interest in continuing to read my writing, you can visit my blog at www.withasideoflemons.com.
Good luck in all of your future endeavors and thank you again!
Sincerely,
Gabby