Dear Gabby,
So I am a 25-year-old student at Sinclair, and I feel like I have been here forever. I’m getting a degree in Liberal Arts, but I’m getting very discouraged because most of my friends are college graduates with a Bachelor’s degree, whilst Im still at Sinclair trying to earn my associate’s degree. I know the time will eventually pass, but I am just worried I wont make it to graduation because I cant get over the fact about how long it’s taking me to graduate. I work part-time, while going to school so I know that’s why its taking me a long time, but I am just questioning if I should just quit and maybe go back when I have motivation and drive to finish it. I figured I could at least start working full time and make more money. What do you think?
Sincerely,
Tired of school
Dear Tired of school,
You are not alone. I know I struggle with the same worries, and I know many other people who do as well. I understand how hard it is to want to graduate and just get on with your life, but the time spent here is well worth it. It’s easy to start comparing yourself to others, especially friends, and see them have a four-year degree, and working on finding a steady career, but just remember your priorities are different.
The exciting part about a community college is that it gives you an opportunity to still get an education, as well as work and meet a wide variety of people. Most people here are balancing work, school and social life, which is something that should be learned in life anyways. People get caught up in the final destination that they forget about the journey. It’s about the process that gets you the ending—so it’s going to be hard work, but it’s worth it. In my personal opinion, I think you should keep going and finish. It’s going to be hard to get back in the groove of things if you quit. On the other hand, if you feel like you’d have more motivation if you took a break then that might benefit you too.
My grandpa gave me the advice to think about how far I have come, rather than how far I have to go, and I must say it really helps. Obviously keep your goals and ending in your sight, but don’t dread on the process or compare yourself to others.
Good luck,
Gabby