I feel like I’ve been living a lie for a while. I’m not even sure why I’m writing this, but I feel like I need to get this out. I’m gay. I feel like I’ve been trying to hide it for so long because my parents won’t want to accept me for who I am. That’s my biggest fear. We’ve created a strong bond, but I’m still worried because they have very conservative views. I’m not sure what to do.
Sincerely,
In the closet
Dear in the closet,
I think everyone craves a bond from their family, and we hope to always receive unconditional love from them, but sometimes you have to remember as much as we want to please them, we have to live our own lives. I think honesty is really important even if that means it might create a rocky road for a while. Remember in this day, people are more open to accepting others. Yes, we still don’t have complete equality, but we’re moving toward that. I think it’s important to be you and try to be open with who you are. I don’t know your relationship with your parents, but maybe sit down and give them your perspective. Be willing to see their side and have compassion. I hope that if they see you happy, that they will accept who you are. Good luck!
Be you,
Gabby