Dear Gabby,
I’ve been in a long distance relationship with a girl for about a month and a half. Everything was going really well until last week when we got into an argument. Now she’s not answering my Facebook messages or anything. I love this girl with all my heart and I would do anything for her.
But she doesn’t seem to want to forgive me. Nobody ever loved me like she has and it would simply break heart to lose her. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Wants to be loved
Dear Wants to be loved,
I want you to be honest and ask yourself, were
the feelings mutual? Every relationship experiences disagreements and bumps in the road, but that’s the beauty of creating a strong bond.
There are so many ups and downs that help a relationship to evolve. It sounds as though the argument was a big deal, considering it only took one disagreement to create stress.
I know it’s easier said than done, but if it’s meant to be it will be. Sometimes, as hard as it is to understand, this relationship might be here to just help you grow and realize what love is. It could open another door for an even better connection with another person. Personally, time and space heals everything.
It’s always tough when the heart is broken because of the absence of someone, but give her some time and space. Let her breathe, and process her feelings. Actions speak louder than words. When you feel the time is right, show her how much you love her. Really show her your heart. She’ll appreciate the honesty and vulnerability.
Find peace,
Gabby